Tuesday, July 2, 2013

Colombia Suspends Adoptions---Sort Of

Update July 2, 2013:  The State Department put out this alert on July 1st regarding the "shut down" of Colombian adoptions.  It's not new news.  It's just a clear statement from ICBF.  

Alert:Colombia Moratorium Update

The Colombian Institute for Family Welfare (ICBF) formally announced several important changes in Colombia’s management of intercountry adoptions.

Beginning July 15, 2013, ICBF will no longer accept new intercountry adoption applications from non-Colombian citizens living abroad interested in adopting a child under 6 years and 11 months old, unless ICBF considers the child to have special characteristics or needs.  Families who are considering adopting a healthy child in this age range should ensure that they have filed their initial application with ICBF no later than the July 15, 2013 deadline.  Visit ICBF website to learn what documents ICBF requires as part of the initial application.  ICBF has indicated this moratorium will last at least two years.
The Department of State expects that adoption processing will continue to operate normally in all other respects.  Families who have already been accepted by ICBF as prospective adoptive parents for a healthy child less than 6 years and 11 months old will maintain their place on the existing waiting list and ICBF will continue to match and finalize adoptions for these children.  Families interested in adopting older children or any child identified by ICBF as being more difficult to place because of special characteristics or needs should not experience any changes as a result of this decision.  Furthermore, ICBF has indicated that any family currently on the waiting list which is open to adopting a different category of child should work with their adoption service provider to let ICBF know.  Visit icbf.gov.co to learn more about the 8,000 children with special characteristics or needs who are currently awaiting adoption.
In addition to this moratorium, ICBF has also implemented a number of changes affecting adoption service providers and private adoption houses.  Effective immediately, adoption service providers may no longer charge prospective adoptive families for “humanitarian assistance” programs as part of an adoption contract.  In addition, ICBF has formally reminded prospective adoptive parents, adoption service providers, and private adoption houses of its ban on donations by any family or entity involved in an ongoing adoption prior to the completion of that adoption.  ICBF is concerned that these payments and donations jeopardize the credibility of Colombia’s intercountry adoption process.  The Department of State expects that ICBF may take adverse action against any individuals or entities that do not honor these requirements.

For updates you may email the Bogota U.S. Embassy at:IVBogota@state.gov, Attn Adoptions or refer to adoption.state.gov for updates.


A few weeks ago, the director of ICBF resigned.  (ICBF is the Child Welfare Institute in Colombia.)  Lots of people in the adoption community were anxiously waiting to see how this would affect Colombian adoptions.  Now we know.  On Thursday, it was announced that Colombia would stop taking applications from foreign families seeking to adopt children under the age of 6 who do not have special needs and do not have siblings.

A little background:  
During the 80s and 90s (and into this century), Colombia was a baby factory for families in Europe (and some in the US) seeking to adopt infants.  Private adoption houses were created.  Pregnant young and/or poor woman could come to the house and receive room, board, and medical treatment.  The babies were then adopted out to foreign families.  Because families were already in place before the child was born, these children were adopted at very young ages.  

This all began to change greatly when Colombia began to actively seek biological relatives to care for children instead of just lining up foreign families for them.  The process takes time and children are becoming older and older before being released for adoption.  Families are still looking for healthy, young children, though and the waiting list has become VERY long.  

Just a side note:  The fact that the list is becoming so long means Colombians are taking care of Colombian children.  This is a good thing!  Colombia has progressed as a nation in the last few decades and is now much more able to care for their own children.  In an ideal world, international adoption wouldn't exist.  Children would be cared for in their own country and culture.  (Just my personal opinion.  I'm sure there are other opinions out there.)  

The current situation:
There are almost 400 Colombian families and about 3,500 foreign families on the waiting list for a healthy child under the age of 6 who does not have siblings.  

I met two families in country that had waited 5+ years for their children.  (Both of the families were European.)  I had a long talk with one of them.  When they started the process, they were not told that it would take that long.  So many things in their lives had changed in 5 years.  Their jobs had changed; their home had changed; their position in life had changed.   They had repeatedly paid to have documents updated; repeatedly paid for updated home studies; repeatedly put their lives on hold waiting for a referral.  While they were thrilled to finally have a son, they insisted they would have chosen a different program if they had known they would wait so long.  

Here's the thing:  Up until Thursday, agencies were continuing to recruit new families into their Colombia programs.  (These programs are different than the waiting child program that I was in.)  These families complete home studies and dossiers that are then sent to Colombia.  Colombian officials take time and resources to review these dossiers and then give the families a number on a very, very long list.  This ties up staff that could be reviewing dossiers of families hoping to adopt waiting children.  Children who already exist and need families!  

I have no problem with people who want to adopt a young, healthy child.  Not everyone is called to adopt a child with Down syndrome or a teenager.  I get that.  I get the desire to adopt an infant or toddler.  But, I think the majority of a country's resources should be devoted to a child that currently needs a home and not a child that will be born five years from now.  (Again.  Just my personal opinion.  I'm sure there are other opinions out there.)  

I applaud ICBF's decision to suspend applications.  Spend your time and energy on the children who need homes now and the families that have already paid thousands of dollars and waited countless months and years.  It makes sense to work on that very long list before you add to it.  It makes sense to seek family members that can care for the children.  It makes sense to focus on the waiting children.  

While I know that there are people that are scrambling to find new programs (some of which transferred to Colombia after Russia closed) and I know there are people that are very upset about this decision, it seems like a very "fair" solution to help manage a very overwhelmed system.  

Monday, July 1, 2013

Ladder Scarves for Sara

UPDATED: July 1, 2013:  I will continue to knit scarves and other items in order to benefit both waiting children and adopting families.  Check the side bar on the blog to see what child and family are benefiting this month.  50% of the selling price of each item will go to either the child or the family.  (Buyer chooses which one.)   


Sara is modeling one of the ladder scarves.  (Ignore the fact that her clothes are too small.  I had a hard time saying goodbye to the 3Ts.)  These scarves are long and light-weight.  I wear mine doubled up.  I always get compliments when I wear it.  

Find Scarves and Skirts for Sara on Facebook!

Scarves are $15 each plus $5 shipping.  $7.50 of each purchase will go to the Family or Waiting child of the month.  

Here's how it's going to work:

*Leave me a comment and let me know what color you want. I will also need an email address.

*I will make a list of those who have ordered and the order in which you placed your order.

*When your scarf is ready, I will send you an invoice.

*When you pay the invoice, I will ship your scarf.

*I will then donate half of the selling price to the Waiting Child or Adopting Family.  I will forward the email receipt to you.  



Here are samples of the color choices:

Color 2 Jade Yellow

Color 3 Sky Blue Silver

Color 4 Gold Brown Green Orange

Color 5 Lilac Red Silver

Color 6 Black White Gold Lilac

Color 7 Red Pink Black

Color 8 Gold Pink Red

Color 9 Blue Purple

Color 10 Brown Gold

#29 Light Purple Blue Yellow

#30 Grey Black with a Hint of Blue

#32 Primaries

#33 Pink Peach Blue

#35 Pink Light Blue Yellow

#36 Pinks Yellow Blue Green

#38 Pinks Aqua Yellow

#64 Black GoldSilver

#73 Red Lavender Green Yellow

#74 Blue Yellow Silver

#78 Pink Purple Orange Black


#80 Reds

#90 Hot Pink Red Brown

#101 Blue Yellow Pink Black

#103 Pastels Blue Pink with Black

#104 Pink Light Blue Black Orange

#105 Magenta Pinks Black


#106 Magentas

#108 Hunters Gold Brown

#110 Black Pink Blue Green

#111 Neons

#112 Purples Fuchsia

#113 Purple, Green, Brown

#114 Red Yellow Purple

#115 Pinks

#116 Yellow Pink Blue Green Purple

#117 Purple Orange Aqua

#118 Orange Blue Fuchsia 

#119 Blue Yellow Green

#120 Purple Blue Green

#121 Pink Purple Black

#9093 Black Purple Blue

Meet James




I wish so much that there was an updated picture of James.  He's so tiny in this picture.  He's 2 now so I imagine he has grown some.  Probably not a lot, though.  Sara wasn't really growing at all before she came home.  

Here is the description of him on his Reece's Rainbow page:

Boy, Born May 2011
Sweet baby James!   Healthy besides his Down syndrome, and waiting for his forever family.  Full medical and social history available.

Not really a whole lot there.  It's probably one of the shortest descriptions that I've seen.  I was hoping to meet him when I was in his country but that just didn't happen.  I do know that he has had some respiratory issues and has been in and out of the hospital.  This poor little guy needs a family!  He's so young.  I hope he doesn't have to spend another birthday without a momma!  
If you've followed the blog and thought, I could do that or I want to do that or I'd like to help someone else do that, now is your chance.  
*James has $5,291.52 in his grant currently.  This is a great start but his future family will need a lot more than that!!!  If you'd like to make a tax-deductible donation, you can do so here.
*If you order something during the month of July from my Scarves and Skirts for Sara page, you can choose for 50% of the sale price to go to James' grant.   (More detailed information about the Scarves and Skirts can be found on the blog.)
*If you are interested in adopting James, or another child with special needs, you can find out more at Reece's Rainbow New Family Info page.    The specific requirements to adopt James' country are:  (He is also in Latin America.) 
  • Single heterosexual parents may adopt
  • No family size restrictions
  • Both parents must travel to the country and stay until completion of adoption — approx 5-7 weeks (one parent may leave after a week or two)
  • Estimated total cost $21,000-24,500

Join me in praying that James will experience the love of a family before he celebrates another birthday!

Skirts for Sara

UPDATED: July 1, 2013:  I will continue to knit scarves, skirts and other items in order to benefit both waiting children and adopting families.  Check the side bar on the blog to see what child and family are benefiting this month.  50% of the selling price of each item will go to either the child or the family.  (Buyer chooses which one.)   

Here is Sara modeling a custom made ruffle skirt.  It uses Starbella and Bernat Stretch or Cascade Fixation yarn. It can be made in size 3-4; 4-6; or 8-10. (The elastic waist can be adjusted to a more specific size.)

Find Scarves and Skirts for Sara on Facebook!

Skirts cost $25 each plus $5 shipping. 

Here's how it's going to work:

*Leave me a comment and let me know what colors you want and your email address. (Color samples are below.) I also need to know what size and a waist measurement.

*I will make a list of those who have ordered and the order in which you placed your order.

*When your skirt is ready, I will send you an invoice.

*When you have paid the invoice, I will ship your scarf.

*I will then donate half of the selling price to the Waiting Child or Adopting Family.  I will forward the email receipt to you.  


Other Skirts I've Made:






Color Samples for the ruffles:
Night Cloud

Autumn

Cinnamon Candy

Happy Pinks

Fly A Kite

Spring Bouquet

Plum Preserves

Canyon Sunrise

Faded Jeans

Collegiate

Magic Potion

Eventide

Wheat Fields

Cheers

Wild Hydrangeas

April Showers

Seabreeze

Athens

Balloons

Birthday Cake

Hope

Toucan

Parrot

Solid Cream

Solid White

Solid Black

Red


Color Samples for the base color:
I found tons of new colors using Cascade Fixation.

Please give me a first and second choice. I'm having trouble getting a hold of some of the base colors.


















These are the Bernat Stretch colors.
Rubber Rose

Blue Boing

The original pattern can be found here.