tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9078582161916882542.post94776739037797333..comments2023-05-08T10:00:40.333-05:00Comments on Life's Amazing Journey: School Stuff - My Advice Nataliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17550830688512202500noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9078582161916882542.post-71113656455932562332013-09-26T11:25:15.717-05:002013-09-26T11:25:15.717-05:00This is really good to know! We are working towar...This is really good to know! We are working toward adopting SN kids, but even outside of that scenario, these social skills are good. The idea of being for, not against, covers every strong relationship. Thanks for taking the time to write this out.Holly and Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07120285230521006849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9078582161916882542.post-38107776068153080212013-09-26T07:34:29.599-05:002013-09-26T07:34:29.599-05:00I have learned many things over the years; fortuna...I have learned many things over the years; fortunately, I also knew a lot of the laws, etc. that apply to Sped since I worked for NY state at the Office for MR & DD (no longer called that) for many yrs. I was the " Service Coordinator" for many children and attended MANY mtgs. But, having an advocate is one of the BEST things you can do - even if they are just there to witness the mtg. Then it's not YOUR word against THEIRS'. If you can possibly have the father attend (I know this isn't possible for all), they seem to sit up and take notice. But, if Sped is new to you, try to find someone that knows more than you! <br />Meet the teacher in person - not just thru the notebook. You'll find that knowing each other helps with communication - you're not just writing to some name. Make friends with the SW if there is one in the school -she can be a big help.<br />I think you addressed most of the concerns - and I'm sure you''ll find more as you go along. I think you are doing a FANTASTIC job.<br />Love, Mom/Nana Mom/Nananoreply@blogger.com